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Sunday, 2 June 2024

A manual for domestic bliss & keeping a sissymaid

 


That very first time when sissy kneels at your feet and performs cunnilingus. Bringing you to climax and orgasm. This is a very special moment and should both be savoured and a constant source of reinforcement to the relationship between sissy & Mistress. Sissies enthusiastic but as yet unrefined  technique may not be all it will become with guidance and punishment. But it is still a lovely moment for both of you. Sissy should bring you fresh clean panties and a refreshing drink then be immediately dismissed to the scullery to hand wash your discarded panties, with a curtsy of course. If sissy does mention how aroused, or excited she has become, often they will blurt and gush these silly little utterances. Indeed as if that should be any concern to you. You should look at her uncomprehendingly, as if to say you couldn’t possible imagine what she means. Or with a glance downwards at her tiny bulge hiding under her apron. it will be tiny, but still not as tiny as it will be. Sissies devoted gaze  will automatically follow yours to her tiny little bump.

When she looks up naturally following your eyes.  Remind her that the proper place for her gaze is below your belt, unless you instruct her otherwise. This keeps her constantly reminded of her inferior menial status. and also that she is a sissymaid for domestic duties and for the sexual intimate pleasures of her superiors. Then confuse her by lifting her eyes to yours occasionally, when she is kneeling by your feet or helping you dry after a shower or to dress. And other times sharply remind her that sissies gaze must be kept lowered respectfully. A caning might be enjoyable at these moments, or a spanking from Sir. For fellatio sissy must always look up Sir, and keep looking up at Him submissively until He permits Her to obediently swallow. She might also be permitted to look up when bowing with the serving tray and serving drinks. Or not change the rules whenever you see fit or it amuses you. This will keep sissy in a delightful state of uncertainty of  sex and fear. This erotically charged anxiety, keeping her  inferior and vulnerable. Deliciously sissies inmate service, especially cunnilingus and fellatio will be fantastically improved by this, as will every aspect of Her domestic subjugation.

Tell her coolly, in an amused but belittling  tone, how sweet it is for her to say that, before dismissing her away to her chores. Maybe with a little laugh or chortle.

No matter how aroused you are by this, at this moment, let her hurry back to her so intimate chore ofwashing your panties. After all you can always wait till you summon sissy again later, or touch yourself. Sissy should always know that this is your choice, although I suggest you train sissy well so that masturbation is rarely needed. You may wish to tolerate these little utterances for the first few times. Or tell sissy that the next time she bothers you with such impertinent nonsense she will be fetching the cane.

Ideally sissy should  be your resident sissymaid before allowing her to please you intimately. And for at


least a few days or weeks of domestic service before she is permitted the privilege of serving you so sweetly.  Sissy should also have been kept in locked chastity for at least 3 months before entering your domestic service. Naturally you should have the sole key to sissies chastity. Later when/if sissy serves your  male friends, you can give them a copy of the key, this humiliation will enhance sissies sexual obedience to His pleasure and ultimately to yours, which is the most important thing.

Sissy should have also been kept anally plugged, except for toileting and a daily enema. When sissy joins your household a much smaller chastity device should be used and a much longer wider more evidently phallic locking plug. The choice is yours but might I suggest new chastity cage should quickly introduce an urethral insert, which keeps sissy soft and tiny even when swelling with excitement. And so that sissy is denied that inappropriate gush of pleasure when peeing. Ideally the eventual chastity device should confine the unused sissy testes ‘cherries’ should be confined back inside the body cavity and only the tiniest tip of Her clitty exposed in its little locked sheath. This will still show a tiny pretty bulge and sissy will still be very self conscious about it, especially when you have company and/or male company. Some owners prefer the cherries outside the body, but enclosed with the clitty in the chastity device.


A lot of Men when demanding fellatio from sissy like to feel the cage just so they can feel sissy is properly locked. The fragile male ego reasoning for this is actual quite pathetic, is it stops the oral sex feeling gay for them, but not for sissy. Men can be such simple brutes easily led by their cocks and urges. The new estrogen infused silicon devices are very good. Feeling totally secure and inflexible for sissy but nice and squeezable for you or Sir. I would suggest baby/pastel pink, but lots of pretty pastel colours are also available. Baby blue is also nice which traditionally is a girls colour too.  

Her enlarged plug too should always remind her that she is a penetrated sissy. She will feel totally vulnerable squirming and squelching on her plug while she performs her chores or more delightful intimate service. And that is the only erection she will allowed from hereafter. Tell sissy she must squirm and squelch up and down around Her plug while she performs cunnilingus, her squirms must match the rhythm of her sweet little tongue. After you have climaxed have sissy continue to squirm on the plug, while she continues to kiss you lovingly down there so sweetly, until


you send her away. Sissy will continue to squirm and grind involuntarily while she washes your panties. If it amuses you, tell her curtly to stop squelching so loudly unless she wishes to fetch the cane. She will be quite desperate but feel unable to stop herself completely. That sweet vulnerable sexual fright will simmer sissy for your pleasure later if you so choose.

Sissy should also squirm and squelch on her plug while performing fellatio, matching His rhythm even as she splutters and gags on Sirs insistent cock. She should continue grinding helplessly & sweetly at least until He permits her to swallow. Initially you can use an expandable dildo plug, increasing its size for intimate service, maximum for your pleasure, slightly smaller for Sir, or for punishment. But over time, as sissies bottom both accustoms itself to penetration and the lube tightens her rear pussy for yours or Sirs pleasure. The normal day to day plug size is recommended to be around 10-12 inches with a matching exaggerated girth. You can autosuggest to sissy that the size still increases or decreases slightly, as and when, and she will still feel it to be so.


The plug should be very exaggeratedly phallic with bulbous glans and veins, though some superiors find the veins to be slightly vulgar. And very rigid with a very thin layer of soft estrogen infused silicon. Sissy will be unable to not feel it as a real warm cock, penetrating her and the silicon though dry will feel hot and wet to Her as She squirms haplessly. You should constantly remind her that it is your cock, or if she is with Sir performing fellatio, His cock, and usually it will be replaced by His real cock after sissy has obediently swallowed His creamy pleasure.  

But I digress slightly as these are all pleasures to come, pun intended, so to speak.

After only  a very short time in chastity sissy will become extremely attentive and obedient. Around the first month sissy will become very emotional and vulnerable, liable to be very tearful. This is to be expected and encouraged, though you should also tease and belittle sissy, for being so girly, girly and pathetic. It is both amusing very sweet to see sissy like this and she will be oh so loving. Once sissy is properly  domesticated this sissy time of the


month  will sync with your own special time of the month and get very easily flustered, but loving and malleable. Whereas you as a superior may avail yourself of medication to minimize or eliminate any monthly inconveniences, emotional or physical. Sissy should not usually be permitted such luxuries, and her very vulnerable and loving state should be exploited and enjoyed, for your own pleasure.

Though you may wish to cane her more frequently at this time if she becomes too easily distracted from performing her housework to the perfect standards you expect. You may want to utilize the sissy crop more often at these times too. If you are feeling just a little uncomfortable or irritable at these times the loud snap of wood or crack of the leather on sissies tender bottom and  thighs can be  most satisfying. As are her distressed cries. Though I would encourage gagging her with panties, either her own or your own moist intimate garments. Muffling such cries to pretty whimpers and sobs.

This is encouraged for pegging sissy too, as it makes her feel even more vulnerable when penetrating her, especially when you start to enjoy using larger strap ons. And pegging my sissy is always pleasurable and very good fillip  to banish any lingering PMT blues.


Naturally a feminized sissy should never be allowed to cum. But sissy can be teased and promised release without the type of release being specified. It is very enjoyable to tease sissy constantly and postpone this release often at the very last moment & for quite trifling reasons. You may never wish to give sissy any sort of relief or release, after all it is not necessary for your intimate enjoyment, or for sissies chores. However I would recommend at least one release after approximately 6 months or so. This should be a milking while sissy is still locked up and done in a way that sissy only feels a slow damp leaking sensation until she is finished dribbling. With latex gloves and cold lube,

though sissy will soon feel it warm up as she squirms against your finger. There wont be very much dribble and sissy should be told to drink her little mess. The glass should be licked clean and washed by sissy. Sissy will still be very horny and needy, she wont be able to help but show her disappointment and now is good time to sweetly ask her what she expected, did she really expect an orgasm ?. You should try to keep a straight face, and also not show your own arousal and look at her coolly and incredulously. Before sending her back to her chores, tell her that at least she can still give you a lovely orgasm later, after we have had a little chat. Sissy should by now that when you say little chat, that means after a swift caning.

I was very aroused at this point and it was all I could to calm myself down, and even later I found it very difficult to fully devote myself to caning sissy. But I did manage and she was caned very soundly and my orgasm was ever so satisfying, as was my second and third intimate licking of the evening. Sissy was very attentive and submissive the next morning and continued to be satisfyingly so.


As I mentioned before I prefer to gag sissy with my still warm and moist panties for a caning or a pegging. It is so lovely to know sissy is so aroused all of the time and is tasting your own arousal, while you are penetrating her or caning Her pert little quivering behind. By now sissy always knows acutely when you are excited and she gets even more excited than usual, positively nearly in orgasm. And it so lovely to send her away, still breathlessly, desperate and needy, to start hand washing your panties after you have had your pleasure with sissy.

Men by contrast rarely or barely know when you are aroused, only themselves. I sometimes wonder why I bother with them at all, as a sissies cunnilingus is so heavenly. Except that I enjoy rigorous physical sex and a nice cock, that real Men can furnish.

As I mentioned  earlier I don’t masturbate often as sissy is so well trained, but occasionally it is nice.


And you can tell sissy you never need masturbate, then change your mind and have her kneel by the bed or stand facing the wall, or simply be going about her housework, while you enjoy your finger. The choice is always yours. Sissy may lick your fingers and clean up afterwards as usual. She will be hotly aroused which is lovely and can be enjoyed or ignored as you so please.    

At this point if you are planning on introducing sissy to forced bi, or have already started this process it would be recommended to make sissies next release conditional on her learning to please a real man. This is very enjoyable to watch as foreplay and is highly recommended for sissy maids. Their loving submissive service  becomes so more satisfying, after they are subjugated to a real mans lust. And this has a circular effect the more they please Him the more they desperately want to please you and so they come to want to please Him, and so on. Sissies release should be continuously postponed for small reasons. Sir might have just popped round and it so much more important to please Him rather than sissies release. Or some little trivial chore that Mistress has abruptly decided needs doing immediately. For this try to choose something completely new and totally unexpected. Polishing the underside of your shoes or similar. Mistress might decide to suddenly  go  out a short while before sissies release. Another nice chore is ironing the clothes your boyfriends leaves here even though sissy will have already dutifully laundered and ironed them to perfection.


Sissy will be quite desperate when you finally inform Her, weeks or months later that you have decided that milking isn’t really necessary and in any case is far too messy for such a tiny dribble. Time this announcement just a short time before the She is expecting the long awaited postponed release. But never mind sissy you will  still be able to perform all your housework and to please Sir and me perfectly.

At this point if you are going to cuckold sissy. And why shouldn’t you have lovers and as much sexual pleasure as you desire. Fidelity and chastity is for sissies not their superiors and owners, their most significant other. This should already  be fully out in the open now, with your lover or lovers staying over regularly. Sissy can launder and iron His clothes for Him while He is in the bedroom with you. And some of your boyfriends and male friends may want to enjoy sissies intimate oral and anal service regularly. It is also very enjoyable to see sissy put across a mans knee, gagged with hers or your panties  and her bared bottom soundly spanked before oral sex. And similarly gagged for anal penetration.


The Men get easily excited and I do like to dress very sultrily for my own pleasure and to see both them and sissy squirm. Though they if they are good boys and make me orgasm first also get to cum, unlike sissy. They also quite enjoy oral and anal but I find it too submissive and degrading. So I leave that to sissy. She does swallow so obediently after fellatio and it so nice seeing her swallowing His cum when I don’t permit her to cum.  And although I disapprove of messy cum all over sissies face. She should swallow it all. I do enjoy punishing sissy for any unintended, inescapable mess  afterwards, usually in private, though sometimes in front of Sir or my guests, if Sir chooses to blow in her pretty face. I usually. prefer the crop on these occasions. Some of the Men know I disapprove and do it anyway knowing that sissy will be punished, and some just cant help themselves. One cant blame them really, its not their fault they are such beastly brutes to sissy sometimes.

Sissy will of course serve Men hesitantly reluctantly at first. But the crop will quickly teach her to serve


with the appearance of both willingness and devoted eagerness to please Him as much as possible. Over time this will become instinctive and though sissy will never totally overcome her inhibitions. The more submissive and effeminate She becomes the more vulnerable, obedient and helplessly loving She will become under His firm dominance. And the more she pleases Him the more she will ache to please you. She will be so hot between your thighs after her ass has been split by Him that you will literally or figuratively scream with pleasure.

I do also very much enjoy oral and anal with sissy giving rather than receiving of course.

Sissy should be constantly reminded of that very first time, after she brought you so lovingly and eagerly to orgasm. And was then dismissed back to Her domestic service. After a pegging or a caning.  Or when she gushes and gets over excited, when you return from work or a night out. Unless it pleases you to detain her for your further pleasure or amusement. Send her back casually back to her domestic duties. Make sure she curtsies first and smoothes her skirt and apron across her tiny bulge, before mincing away obediently. This may seem mean & sometimes it can be difficult to remain strong with your pretty sissy. But both you and she will find this fulfilling and satisfying, for your relationship, though I daresay maybe you more so than she.  

Pat her bottom after she curtsies and send her back to her chores with a secret or not so secret satisfied smile. 

By now your sissymaid will perform her housework to perfection, but there is always room for further perfection and you should ensure to keep sissy fretting and expectant. Change your mind on a whim and a fancy. Sissy will strive to be attentive and devoted not just be pleasing, but be seen to so. Your house will be so clean every day and smell so lovely when you wake in the morning. When you come home from a busy day pursuing your career. After an afternoon out with your friends. Or an evening out with your boyfriend.

Your house will be so perfect, your silk bedsheets ironed so smoothly, your pillows plumped. Your expensive nightwear lingerie laid out for you and Sir or maybe your current girlfriend to enjoy.  One lovely thing is for your current lover to keep  a set or selection even, of nightwear, silk boxers or pajamas in your house that sissy can launder for Him. Of course sissy should launder His everyday clothes too when Sir visits overnight too.

Sissy can wake Him with fellatio and make Him breakfast too. I prefer to wake later, but sometimes I
might wake and watch half asleep while sissy wakes Sir and gets a mouthful of His morning cum. Its usually especially thick and sticky in the morning. I can usually go back to sleep or maybe finger myself back to sleep. Though often I will just wait for sissy to wake me properly later and sometimes have sissy between my thighs, or queen sissy between the pillows while having my first coffee and smoke of the day, before my shower.  

Of course some Mistresses have different routes and prefer to emasculate and feminize an unsatisfactory husband. Most Men become tiresome after a while. But with some firm correction an inadequate lover can be transformed into an obedient totally attentive and loving sissymaid. Locked in chastity and busy with housework while you enjoy your sexual liberation, with whomever and whenever it pleases you.      




In the future every sexually liberated woman will have a sissymaid, seraglio of obedient maids of Her own. To serve Her domestically and Her every intimate whim and desire.

Sissy will not be given a choice in Her sexual orientation, She will do as She is told or be punished until She begs to be obedient.

Or the dominant male with a harem of obedient sissymaids to serve Him. All desperate and almost bursting with desire to please their Mistress or Master, squirming helplessly in chastity and squelching in near orgasm on their dildo plugs, for both housework, and especially effervescently so for intimate service.  

And the only thing a modern woman will need domestic and intimate bliss. For housework will be Her canes.

 


 

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